Lessons in hospitality / etiquette

The Japanese (for the most part) are extremely well-mannered and consider manners, etiquette of utmost importance. I've struggled with some aspects of this for sure. I'm keen on pushing myself to learn them and accustom myself to them, though. Not only will following these rules help me to fit in and not offend people, they can help me in the future regardless of where I live or who I am with. Manners, I'm learning, are important. Here are just a few Japanese etiquette guidelines I've come across when it comes to hospitality. Rules - Hospitality Always bring something when going to someone's house for dinner Always help with the dishes - to completion Always be over-thankful Show your gratefulness and surprise at anything given to you Start helping - rather than just offering Always over-offer When people refuse, offer again. If they refuse again, just give it to them anyway